diff --git a/codec-http2/src/main/java/io/netty/handler/codec/http2/DefaultHttp2ConnectionDecoder.java b/codec-http2/src/main/java/io/netty/handler/codec/http2/DefaultHttp2ConnectionDecoder.java
--- a/codec-http2/src/main/java/io/netty/handler/codec/http2/DefaultHttp2ConnectionDecoder.java
+++ b/codec-http2/src/main/java/io/netty/handler/codec/http2/DefaultHttp2ConnectionDecoder.java
@@ -214,8 +214,8 @@ private int unconsumedBytes(Http2Stream stream) {
 
     void onGoAwayRead0(ChannelHandlerContext ctx, int lastStreamId, long errorCode, ByteBuf debugData)
             throws Http2Exception {
-        connection.goAwayReceived(lastStreamId, errorCode, debugData);
         listener.onGoAwayRead(ctx, lastStreamId, errorCode, debugData);
+        connection.goAwayReceived(lastStreamId, errorCode, debugData);
     }
 
     void onUnknownFrame0(ChannelHandlerContext ctx, byte frameType, int streamId, Http2Flags flags,

diff --git a/codec-http2/src/test/java/io/netty/handler/codec/http2/Http2ConnectionRoundtripTest.java b/codec-http2/src/test/java/io/netty/handler/codec/http2/Http2ConnectionRoundtripTest.java
--- a/codec-http2/src/test/java/io/netty/handler/codec/http2/Http2ConnectionRoundtripTest.java
+++ b/codec-http2/src/test/java/io/netty/handler/codec/http2/Http2ConnectionRoundtripTest.java
@@ -52,6 +52,8 @@
 import java.util.Random;
 import java.util.concurrent.CountDownLatch;
 import java.util.concurrent.ExecutionException;
+import java.util.concurrent.atomic.AtomicBoolean;
+import java.util.concurrent.atomic.AtomicInteger;
 import java.util.concurrent.atomic.AtomicReference;
 
 import static io.netty.buffer.Unpooled.EMPTY_BUFFER;
@@ -945,47 +947,33 @@ public void operationComplete(ChannelFuture future) throws Exception {
     }
 
     @Test
-    public void createStreamSynchronouslyAfterGoAwayReceivedShouldFailLocally() throws Exception {
+    public void listenerIsNotifiedOfGoawayBeforeStreamsAreRemovedFromTheConnection() throws Exception {
         bootstrapEnv(1, 1, 2, 1, 1);
 
-        final CountDownLatch clientGoAwayLatch = new CountDownLatch(1);
-        doAnswer(new Answer<Void>() {
-            @Override
-            public Void answer(InvocationOnMock invocationOnMock) throws Throwable {
-                clientGoAwayLatch.countDown();
-                return null;
-            }
-        }).when(clientListener).onGoAwayRead(any(ChannelHandlerContext.class), anyInt(), anyLong(), any(ByteBuf.class));
-
         // We want both sides to do graceful shutdown during the test.
         setClientGracefulShutdownTime(10000);
         setServerGracefulShutdownTime(10000);
 
-        final Http2Headers headers = dummyHeaders();
-        final AtomicReference<ChannelFuture> clientWriteAfterGoAwayFutureRef = new AtomicReference<ChannelFuture>();
-        final CountDownLatch clientWriteAfterGoAwayLatch = new CountDownLatch(1);
+        final AtomicReference<Http2Stream.State> clientStream3State = new AtomicReference<Http2Stream.State>();
+        final CountDownLatch clientGoAwayLatch = new CountDownLatch(1);
         doAnswer(new Answer<Void>() {
             @Override
             public Void answer(InvocationOnMock invocationOnMock) throws Throwable {
-                ChannelFuture f = http2Client.encoder().writeHeaders(ctx(), 5, headers, 0, (short) 16, false, 0,
-                        true, newPromise());
-                clientWriteAfterGoAwayFutureRef.set(f);
-                f.addListener(new ChannelFutureListener() {
-                    @Override
-                    public void operationComplete(ChannelFuture future) throws Exception {
-                        clientWriteAfterGoAwayLatch.countDown();
-                    }
-                });
-                http2Client.flush(ctx());
+                clientStream3State.set(http2Client.connection().stream(3).state());
+                clientGoAwayLatch.countDown();
                 return null;
             }
         }).when(clientListener).onGoAwayRead(any(ChannelHandlerContext.class), anyInt(), anyLong(), any(ByteBuf.class));
 
+        // Create a single stream by sending a HEADERS frame to the server.
+        final Http2Headers headers = dummyHeaders();
         runInChannel(clientChannel, new Http2Runnable() {
             @Override
             public void run() throws Http2Exception {
+                http2Client.encoder().writeHeaders(ctx(), 1, headers, 0, (short) 16, false, 0,
+                    false, newPromise());
                 http2Client.encoder().writeHeaders(ctx(), 3, headers, 0, (short) 16, false, 0,
-                        true, newPromise());
+                    false, newPromise());
                 http2Client.flush(ctx());
             }
         });
@@ -998,24 +986,38 @@ public void run() throws Http2Exception {
         runInChannel(serverChannel, new Http2Runnable() {
             @Override
             public void run() throws Http2Exception {
-                http2Server.encoder().writeGoAway(serverCtx(), 3, NO_ERROR.code(), EMPTY_BUFFER, serverNewPromise());
+                http2Server.encoder().writeGoAway(serverCtx(), 1, NO_ERROR.code(), EMPTY_BUFFER, serverNewPromise());
                 http2Server.flush(serverCtx());
             }
         });
 
-        // Wait for the client's write operation to complete.
-        assertTrue(clientWriteAfterGoAwayLatch.await(DEFAULT_AWAIT_TIMEOUT_SECONDS, SECONDS));
-
-        ChannelFuture clientWriteAfterGoAwayFuture = clientWriteAfterGoAwayFutureRef.get();
-        assertNotNull(clientWriteAfterGoAwayFuture);
-        Throwable clientCause = clientWriteAfterGoAwayFuture.cause();
-        assertThat(clientCause, is(instanceOf(Http2Exception.StreamException.class)));
-        assertEquals(Http2Error.REFUSED_STREAM.code(), ((Http2Exception.StreamException) clientCause).error().code());
+        // wait for the client to receive the GO_AWAY.
+        assertTrue(clientGoAwayLatch.await(DEFAULT_AWAIT_TIMEOUT_SECONDS, SECONDS));
+        verify(clientListener).onGoAwayRead(any(ChannelHandlerContext.class), eq(1), eq(NO_ERROR.code()),
+            any(ByteBuf.class));
+        assertEquals(Http2Stream.State.OPEN, clientStream3State.get());
+
+        // Make sure that stream 3 has been closed which is true if it's gone.
+        final CountDownLatch probeStreamCount = new CountDownLatch(1);
+        final AtomicBoolean stream3Exists = new AtomicBoolean();
+        final AtomicInteger streamCount = new AtomicInteger();
+        runInChannel(this.clientChannel, new Http2Runnable() {
+            @Override
+            public void run() throws Http2Exception {
+                stream3Exists.set(http2Client.connection().stream(3) != null);
+                streamCount.set(http2Client.connection().numActiveStreams());
+                probeStreamCount.countDown();
+            }
+        });
+        // The stream should be closed right after
+        assertTrue(probeStreamCount.await(DEFAULT_AWAIT_TIMEOUT_SECONDS, SECONDS));
+        assertEquals(1, streamCount.get());
+        assertFalse(stream3Exists.get());
 
         // Wait for the server to receive a GO_AWAY, but this is expected to timeout!
         assertFalse(goAwayLatch.await(1, SECONDS));
         verify(serverListener, never()).onGoAwayRead(any(ChannelHandlerContext.class), anyInt(), anyLong(),
-                any(ByteBuf.class));
+            any(ByteBuf.class));
 
         // Shutdown shouldn't wait for the server to close streams
         setClientGracefulShutdownTime(0);

DefaultHttp2ConnectionDecoder triggers stream channel closes more eagerly than it should
### Expected behavior
When a Http2FrameCodec receives a GOAWAY the stream channels with ID's greater than the last seen will get notified of the GOAWAY so they can bubble up a retryable signal.

### Actual behavior
The connection is notified first which eagerly closes the streams. This happens [here](https://github.com/netty/netty/blob/4.1/codec-http2/src/main/java/io/netty/handler/codec/http2/DefaultHttp2ConnectionDecoder.java#L215).

A work around is to add a listener to the `Http2Connection` that eagerly sends another copy of the `Http2GoAwayFrame` down the pipeline. This works because [connection listeners get called](https://github.com/netty/netty/blob/4.1/codec-http2/src/main/java/io/netty/handler/codec/http2/DefaultHttp2Connection.java#L234) before the extra streams are culled, but that is also painful because the `DefaultHttp2GoAwayFrame` [constructor](https://github.com/netty/netty/blob/4.1/codec-http2/src/main/java/io/netty/handler/codec/http2/DefaultHttp2GoAwayFrame.java#L80) that allows your to set the `lastStreamId` is package private.

### Netty version
4.1.43.Final but also appears to affect 4.1

@bryce-anderson will you look into a proper fix ?
@normanmaurer, yes. I suspect it will be either really easy or really hard.
@bryce-anderson ok cool... let me know once you have something to review. 
org.io.netty.handler.codec.http2.Http2ConnectionRoundtripTest